Category Archives: Character Education

Critical Thinking Through The Powerpuff Girls

Like most parents, I worry about whether my three year-old is watching too much TV, or whether she is watching too passively. Will it stunt her development? Shouldn’t she be outside playing?

Yakuza Baby (we gave her that nickname because she was born while we were watching a Japanese gangster movie) is addicted to the Powerpuff Girls (remember them?) – both the American version and the Japanese version. She is such a fan that she was horrified when her Grandma inadvertently called them the Powderpuff Girls. She likes to watch them so much that she tells me that when she’s not watching, she has to blink to get the Powerpuff Girls out of her eyes.  Yesterday, she asked if she could go into the TV (“Like in Blue’s Clues!”) to fight with Mojo Jojo.

I am one of those parents who has no real rules on TV watching, except that in the evenings, we have to share the TV… so I can passively watch Usain Bolt break the 100 meters record, yet again!

Especially before we go to bed, our family chats a lot about what she’s watching on TV, and we create re-enactments and re-write the TV situations, in English (and sometimes in pretend-Japanese), before we have an argument about which Powerpuff Girl is allowed to go to sleep with us in our bed (yes, Daddy got her the plush toys off eBay), together with her Hello Kitties (that’s a whole other story).

She’s been picking up a few Japanese words from the Japanese Powerpuff Girls – like ‘clever’ and ‘power’ – so it can’t be all that bad…

A couple of nights ago, she asked, “How come the Amoeba Boys in the English Powerpuff Girls are all boys, but the Amoeba Boys in the Japanese Powerpuff Girls has a girl?” (The woman amoeba in the Japanese Powerpuff Girls is, in fact, the leader.) The educator in me perked up. Aha! A teachable moment!

So, I responded, “Yeah, that’s true… which one do you like better?”

Yakuza Baby: “I like the Japanese one, with the girl amoeba.”

Me: “Why?”

Yakuza Baby: “Because I like to see girls better.”

Even at a very young age, kids are capable of critical thinking, and it often involves comparing situations and thinking about what seems fair or unfair, as well as being sensitive to unfamiliar situations and questioning that unfamiliarity, eg., “Why do you think it’s strange that the princess has short hair or black hair?”  Popular culture (especially in comparing popular depictions across eastern and western pop culture) can often provide these teachable moments in terms that are not threatening and in terms that kids understand. For one of the best books on using popular culture for education, see Donna Alvermann’s “Popular Culture in the Classroom: Teaching and Researching Critical Media Literacy“.

So far, my favorite line from the Powerpuff Girls is one that will take some time for me to explain to Yakuza Baby – it’s Blossom explaining how to defeat the Rowdyruff Boys: “Every time their masculinity gets threatened, they shrink in size!”

 

-Yen Yen Woo is Associate Professor of Education, Long Island University, C.W.Post in New York and also creator of the bilingual comic book iPad app, Dim Sum Warriors

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What’s the cost of good grades?

My friends in Singapore (yes, the country with the model  education system for most of the world) have been telling me not to return with my daughter to Singapore for her education.

Why?

Because the cost is too high.

For many middle-class parents in Singapore, it involves the full-time commitment of (usually) the mom, ferrying the kids around for after-school tutoring, volunteering at the top schools to make sure that their kids get admission priority, monitoring kids’ homework. Families even have to engage drivers if they have more than one kid of school-going age. Getting children to produce good grades requires the labor of many people in the support network – parents, grandparents, tutors, domestic helpers, drivers. It does take a village!

This morning, just woke up to the New York Times article about students taking “Taking Stimulants Not for a High, but for a Higher SAT Score“. High school students are finding it easier to take drugs for the focus that they need to ace tests and exams. Is it worthwhile sacrificing our children’s health for good grades?

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My Child is Teaching Me About Trusting Her Instincts

Yesterday morning, Kaikai, who’s two and a half, told me “I am sick, I want to stay at home to rest”. She looked fine, and her Papa had been sick over the weekend, and her Nanny was staying at home sick, so I thought she was pretending to be sick, to be like Papa and Nanny.

Papa and I enticed her with, how about the park and a movie? She said she wanted to watch “the Penguin movie”. We tried to persuade her to watch “the Muppet movie” but she really really wanted “the Penguin movie” – so Happy Feet it is.

By the end of the day, as she’s trying to pick edamame with her chopsticks, she crawled onto me and put her feverish head on my chest. We asked for the check and she immediately reached for the fruit platter the waitress brought with the check. I think her body told her that fruit was what she needed.

When we got home, she took some Ibuprofen and went to bed. In the middle of the night, she kicked off her blanket and woke up a few times to go to the bathroom and  we would offer her water, which she drank thirstily. Her fever had subsided.

At 5 am, she suddenly woke up and told me, “Mommy, I need to wash my hands”. I said, “no, you don’t … go back to sleep”. After a few minutes, she insisted, “I need to wash my hands, with cold water!” and proceeded to walk to the bathroom. I felt her and realized that her fever had returned.

Lesson learned: I need to learn to trust my child as she tells me how she feels.  I need to help her trust and listen to her instincts, about her body, about what she needs, about good and bad. And the Penguin movie wasn’t so bad either.

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SuperNanny Vs. Unconditional Parenting

When Kaikai went for her two year-old checkup in the paediatrician’s clinic, she was running around the whole place asking everyone for their names, calling out things that she was seeing, and singing songs loudly. When it came to to our turn, the doctor smiled and said, in that good-natured if somewhat acerbic manner characteristic of Hong Kongers, “She’s out of control! You have to show her who’s boss!” Both Colin and I looked at each other and agreed, “Sure. She is the boss.”

It did set me thinking though… are we too permissive? Is she really out of control? Am I the kind of parent who’s the only one who thinks that her kid is cute and curious when she is actually irritating everyone? (But I swear – no one in the clinic looked irritated – they were all smiling and chatting with her). Should I really be showing her who’s boss? Continue reading

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We Should Stop Talking About Respect and Just Do Stuff Together

My daughter, Kaikai’s grandma Sally just left us to return to her home country of Singapore last night, after spending two weeks with us in New York.  The whole time that she was here, Kaikai was very attached to her. She wanted to chase grandma, wanted grandma to chase her, grandma showed Kaikai how to make necklaces with beads, they read books together. It was lovely, and I actually got some time to read! Continue reading

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